BUSINESS: profit-seeking enterprise
When you go to the store, you are there to buy something. Before you go, you have a good idea what you want and you bring money to make the purchase. If you arrive and they don’t have it, you go somewhere else to find what you want. The way you leave the store depends upon what kind of person you are. If you have anger issues, you will probably be mad and leave unhappy. If you are a person who is more stable and patient, you will leave quietly and content to find what you need at the next store. This is a picture of the “consumer” or “customer.” This is also a picture of the “church hopper.”
When a church allows the money side to overshadow their vision for the kingdom, they become a business. When the church is a business, the people become customers or consumers. As a result, other churches become competitors. Sound familiar?
This is the breeding ground for the church hopper. The church hopper is birthed and enabled by churches and church leaders who act as businesses instead of places where God’s glory and Kingdom are the main focus. Church hopper’s habits are influenced by their church leaders. Just like the child who never hears the word “no” and experiences little to no discipline, the church hopper becomes a spoiled child of God who reacts negatively any time they are not pleased by the church.
Church hoppers are different from church members. A member is about commitment. A church member has had days at the church where they may not be completely satisfied or in agreement, but they stay, because they are ultimately committed to the vision of the church and its leaders. A church hopper is not ultimately committed. Their presence is not determined on the churches vision. Its determined on the churches appeal to them. Just like a customer who walks into a store, if they don’t find what they want, they will take their business elsewhere.
As a church leader, this is very frustrating, not because of losing someone, but because I know these kind of people will never truly experience the miracle of the church. The church is a place where people can experience the fullness of God in their life through worship, service and community. When you hop around, you will only experience the church in part.
Growing up, we moved a lot. We lived in 6 different states, and I went to many different schools. The positive side was that I experienced a lot of different cultures and met a lot of different people. The negative side was that I missed out in experiencing and cultivating those long standing, deep relationships and friendships. I knew a lot of people, but I never really knew a lot about those people, because we didn’t stay long. Being a kid, this was obviously out of my control, but I don’t resent it.
Church hoppers don’t hop to different states, cities, or even counties. They hop to different streets. They miss out on community that will shape them and their family and they ultimately miss out on impacting others within that community. Why? Because at the end of the day……..it’s about them.
Church hoppers will always be. As long as there are churches, there will be hoppers. As a church leader, I want to be in a church that attracts hoppers less and less. I want to be a part of a church that cultivates committed members to God’s church and live lives that shout the heart of Jesus and his picture of disciples in Luke 9:23-24. They echo the heart of John the Baptist in John 3 as they proclaim, “It’s not about me!”
Don’t get me wrong. I understand that there are cases where you have no choice but to find a new church to be a part of. It happens. If you can’t support the vision of the church and its leaders, it’s probably time to go. But if you find yourself changing your membership over and over, it’s probably not an issue with those churches. It might be you. You might be a church hopper.
Click here for a funny look at the idea of the church hopper from Jon Acuff on Stuff Christians Like.